They say:

One day at a Time

One Step then another Step.

They say:

It’s a Process

It will get better.

They Say:

The Emptiness 

Will always be there

But you will get over it

Just give it Time.

They say:

Life is Precious

Be Grateful for it.

They say:

Laugh, that’s the best

Way to heal.

They Say:

Give it a year, or two,

You need to adjust.

They say:

You have triggers, 

Don’t pull them.

They say:

Other people can be

Very annoying.

They Say:

Be social,

Make new friends

That will help.

They say:

Live, 

It’s what they would

Want you to do.

Live for them,

For your Children

And Grandchildren.

Grief, Bereavement, Mourning

Is always there

For someone,

For everyone.

If you are a Living Being, 

It is there.

I say: Blah, Blah, Blah

And more,

And worse.

Losing your

Soul Mate

Is losing yourself.

That’s what Soul Mate 

Means.

The Question is:

What do you do

When you are no longer

You?

And what do you

Do, if you  are

Not going to join your

Soul Mate, 

Yet.

And can you ever,

Join your Soul Mate

Again?

My answer:

Yes, I can. 

I Believe 

What I said 

Every night:

We Will Be Together

Forever and Ever.

But:

Can you go on

Living

Yet never, ever,

Be you?

People do it

All the time, 

I know.

But I don’t Think

Or Feel

I can do that, or

Want to do that.

For Me,

How does a Birch Tree

Live without Fungus?

How does a Rabbit Live

Without Grass?

How does a Daisy Live

Without Bees?

I am here,

And then 

I am Gone.

So be it.

So be it.